Your Zodiac Sign Explains How Crazy You Behave Around Your Crush

Your Zodiac Sign Explains How Crazy You Behave Around Your Crush

Love gives you a Crazy Kind of Brave

Well, Love is one such thing. It makes you do crazy insane things which you might see you doing in a million years but there you are – doing. Love can make a man do real crazy stuff, for instance, a man built Taj Mahal out of Love – Wonder of the World! Wonderful! From the crazy love confessions on Social Media to standing with boom boxes overhead outside a Girl’s House, love, undoubtedly, makes us do insane things.

But unlike love, Crushes aren’t that serious. Actually, let me rephrase it. Crushes aren’t supposed to be that serious because you are only infatuated towards them. But despite being completely aware of it, you start acting quirky to just impress your Crush! You may not the reason behind it, but our stars surely do.

Yes, there’s a particular way you behave when our crush is around. Scroll it down to discover what your crazy brave heart makes you do (based on Zodiac Signs):

The Exuberant Ram – Aries (March 21-April 19)

You are a strong and powerful sign. You are clear of your feelings and desires. But when you have a crush on someone, you tend to get nervous. The moment your crush is around you, you start shying away and blush. Your stronger side goes all South!

The Dominating Bull – Taurus (April 20-May 20)

When you have a crush on someone, everyone knows about it. You are extremely caring and possessive about your crush. In fact, even before your crush starts giving you any hints, you have already made the announcement, “It’s My Territory”

The Unpredictable Twins – Gemini (May 21-June 20)

Gemini is amusing and talkative. You have an entirely different outlook when it comes to love. You think of love as something adventurous. And when you have a crush on someone, you tend to act in the weirdest manner. But you enjoy being this way, don’t you?

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The Eloquent Crab – Cancer (June 21-July 22)

Having a reputation of being immensely caring and emotional, you have a pessimistic approach to a relationship. At times, you even underestimate your worth and feel that you aren’t good enough. You try to hold back your feelings but honestly, you just can’t.

The Fierce Lion – Leo (July 23-August 22)

You are a difficult deal to handle. You tend to become a little arrogant and overly nervous when your crush is around. You leave absolutely nothing in order to impress your crush. You become a different personality altogether. Leo is enormously affectionate, when in love.

The Analytical Maiden – Virgo (August 23-September 22)

You are honestly insane when it comes to your Crush! You tend to become judgmental and start finding their flaws. Even more actually, you start pointing out their flaws. You want everything so perfect that sometimes it becomes a Lil’ hard on them.

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The Balanced Scales – Libra (September 23-October 22)

You are a charming individual and are generally able to make your crush fall for you. You are romantic and flirtatious but if your crush does something that pisses you off, well… well..well, I’ll reserve my comments. Let those grudges go!

The Dark Seduction – Scorpio (October 23-November 21)

Known for their impulsive wit and charm, Scorpios are normally indifferent towards people who do not hold an interest in them. But when you have a crush on someone, you start noticing them and become concerned with everything they do. Sometimes over-concerned! But you won’t say it to them till you make them fall for you.

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The Perfect Archer – Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)

You really try hard to get crush rolling for you. You put in extra efforts to make them laugh, you wish to seek advice from them, and at times you become obnoxious. Whatever it takes for you to have your crush, you are going to give it a try.

The Egoistic Goat – Capricorn (December 22-January 19)

Believe it or not, Capricorns have a Superiority complex. This is certainly why you never let your crush know about your feelings unless you are sure about their feelings. You fall in a different league of Zodiacs. You try freaking hard to hide your feelings.

The Eccentric Bearer – Aquarius (January 20-February 18)

You are one of a kind. Although you are emotionally reserved but when it’s our crush in the picture, you just never let the conversations die. For you even a crush means intense. Sometimes, you even plan your future with them.

The Peace Lover – Pisces (February 19-March 20)

You are the ultimate peace lover of all signs. You are a dreamer but hold back your desires. You have a quirky side when it comes to your Crush. You wish to share everything with them, in fact, you even start a conversation but you’re fearful. You make it a Lil’ confusing for your crush!

An Open Letter to Women Who Lose Their Badass Side in Love  

Dear “Mad In Love’ Woman,

How good is your social life going? You’re absent from your social gatherings, you are always canceling plans with your friends, and you are always wondering about your man. You are simply “madly in love” with him. He is apparently the best thing that has ever happened to you, perhaps, he’s all that you have ever wanted.

Love doesn’t mean to lose yourself to someone, nor does it mean to let a guy completely consume you, and it definitely does not mean to allow someone to change you. I’m about to say things that your friends have wanted to tell you but preferred to stay silent about it; things which you too are aware of but chose to be in denial.

There’s a thin line between being infatuated with someone and being in control of your infatuation. And that’s what you need to understand. This is what your people had been trying to tell you.

You are not in your control and if you continue being this way, you would land up in trouble, serious trouble. Nobody likes an emotionally unstable woman who cannot discipline her emotions. If you do not make a change in yourself, even your relationship would be a mess because you’ll never be able to give him enough space. And eventually, lose him. You need to inculcate a change in yourself and learn to control your emotions.

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Truth be told, if he really loves you and cares about you, things would be less complicated than you think. If you have a social life and give him his space, there are chances that your relationship would be even better.

I completely understand the feeling of hearing from your special one gives you a sense of contentment and happiness but mellow it down a little, because you tend to overreact when he doesn’t follow his normal patterns. In a nutshell, stop overdoing things. Hold back, brace yourself and realize that the first person you need to ever worry about is yourself. Revive your badass side woman. Get this rolling in your head!

Do not stop loving him but start loving yourself more. A strong woman knows what she wants, and also, how to get it. From love to money, a strong woman is not insecure, she isn’t scared, and she finds her way out. Because she knows at the end, there would be only one person at her side, “herself”.

 

8 Reasons Why Most Men Can’t Handle an Intense Woman

The more intense she is, harder it becomes for her to find someone who can handle a relationship with her. She might be slightly intimidating because she brings intensity and passion to the table. Her emotions are profound and so are her thoughts. She is never indifferent about things that matter to her. She goes out on a number of dates but at some point in time, the relationship fails to grow any further. And here’s why:

1. She asks deep questions. Because of the kind of intensity she possesses, she probes further into a man’s life and asks questions that he may not be prepared to answer. She will dig deeper and ask serious and philosophical questions – she does not enjoy a shallow conversation.

serious discussion between a man and intense woman

2. She is honest.Well yes! In fact brutally honest – right on the face. An intense woman takes her integrity very seriously and one thing is clear, if you ask her something, she’ll tell you the truth and only truth.

An honest intense woman

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3. She knows what she wants. An intense woman knows exactly what she wants and there, is something undeniably sexy about such a woman. She’ll know it right away if she likes a man or doesn’t and would not be seen struggling with it.

the woman who knows what she wants

4. She wants an intense and passionate relationship.She wants to have long beautiful conversations about life, about career, and about love. She is looking for something more than just hanging around. She wishes to add value to a man’s life.

a woman who wants a serious relationship

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5. She is not afraid of intimacy.This might come as a surprise to you but it indeed is true. She is not afraid of getting closer or risking getting hurt. For her, depth and intimacy go hand in hand and she will always treasure the splendor of intimacy in relationships.

6. She sees through a Man.Yes! She sees through her man in depth and as bold as it sounds, her character is indeed the same. She is not the one to hold back from pointing out what she sees in him or how well she can read him.

a woman who Sees through things

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7. She craves for consistency.This needs to be noted down. This woman gets completely turned off by inconsistency. She desires a strong connection and a solid bond and she knows that consistency is the foundation of that bond. She is not there to participate in the dating games. She’s looking for more!

an intense woman asking for consistency

8. She won’t wait for him.She will not wait for him to make up his mind or watch he be hesitant about her. She is a strong and bold woman and will not invest her emotions on someone who doesn’t appreciate her depth.

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5 Perfect Ways to Make Him Crave For You Now

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You’ve seen it happen – the ordinary woman has some guy falling all over himself to make her extremely happy while the beauty sits alone in the corner. Even if you are in a relationship with a guy, you want your guy to want you, to crave you, to ache for you.

While starting a relationship or being in midst of one, a girl normally encounters two problematic situations. Firstly, she fails to get the desired attention of her guy. Secondly, she starts losing him and doesn’t understand how to win back his heart. Thirdly, taking a selfie should be your last option. Pun intended.

The difference is not in what a woman does, but how she does. And you have to do the RIGHT things at the Right time to trigger the Right kind feelings in a man. Here are the 5 perfect ways to make him crave for you now:

1.   Leave something to the Imagination

It is wise to remember that a man prefers to think more about what he can’t see what he does. So, the best way to make your man want you more is to take baby steps in the relationship. Unravel your mysteries slowly and sensuously.

Priyanka chopra looking extremely hot in a white slit dress

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2.   Ask him to flex his muscles so you can feel them

Well, I do not mean it in the literal sense. Your man might not have a body as that of Hritik Roshan (no offense!). What I do mean to convey is, tell him he’s handsome. Tell him he’s irresistible to you. Tell him how masculine he is. Men too like to be complimented. There are many things men want you to know but will not say. And this is one of them.

hritik Roshan showing his muscles

3.   Leave behind your small things that will jog his memory

Honestly, this one works wonders. I can vouch for it as in my personal experience, this has outlived my expectations. I mean it. Seeing your bracelet, earring, or even hair clip can keep him thinking about you every now. So, the next time you meet him, you know what you need to do.

Seeing your bracelet, earring, or even hair clip can keep him thinking about you every now and then. So, the next time you meet him, you know what you need to do in order to make him crave for you;)

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4.   Ask for his advice when you face challenges

Consider his ideas and opinions without forcing him to “make your decisions for you.” When a man sees that his girl considers him important enough to seek advice from him, he tends to get more attracted towards his girl and he starts wanting her more.

A word of caution: Do not pretend to seek his advice, do it only if you respect his thoughts and opinions.

A girl seeking his boyfriend's advice in the library

5.   Stroke his (ahem!) ego in the bedroom

Let him know you can’t stop thinking about him, even long after those sweaty, smoking-hot sheets have been changed. And see him fall for you even more! Male ego is fragile, it needs to be stroked well and when done, you can see him craving for you.

man and woman getting intimate in the bedroom

Do let me know which one of these tips worked well for you in the comments section below!

Why Are We Scared Of Getting Married?

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These days, all I’m hearing about, in my family and peer group is ‘Marriage’. My friends are getting married, my relatives are getting married, in fact, even my younger cousins are getting married. It seems this is the only thing left to be done. As if, this is the ultimate motive of human existence.

But you know what?

I am scared of marriage, I’m afraid of settling down and I am sure most of you are. Did you ever wonder, why the whole marriage thing freaks us all?

Here is the answer to the question – why are we scared of marriage?

1. We have become over exposed to the fact that we have come alone in this world. Everything else is just a delusion.

We are a generation infatuated to our efforts of finding ourselves. When we invest our time and efforts on someone, we expect returns. We are not a generation who will invest themselves in structuring their life around someone who just isn’t worth it. Therefore, marriage scares us.

the search for finding own self makes us scared of marriage

2. The general insight of marriage amongst the idealists is that it clips our wings.

We’re so expended with running the rat race that life has been condensed to, most of us flinch at the very thought of getting married, especially when we’re in our twenties. We are scared of getting married because marriage is now paralleled with being tied down.

3. It involves fusing into someone else’s life, in a manner that you are almost one unit.

While most of us are trying to establish peace with our own demons, the idea of being responsible for another being is beyond what most of us agreed for. The old-school marriage involved a considerable amount of compromises to be made by both ends, and the 21st century generation is not very convinced with this outlook.
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4. With efflux of time, more women are breaking, what we call the typical societal stereotypes.

They are determined towards attaining financial independence, and so, marriage takes a backseat and the chase of ambitions tops the priority. The notion of the ‘ideal bahu’ has changed over the years, and women no longer seek indulgence in being the flawless homemaker. This, of course, adds to the reason of being scared of getting married.


Actress Asin dressed as Indian Bride

Apart from all this, while marriage might be a chilling prospect, don’t we all want someone to come home to?

There is always a sense of contentment in being assured of someone’s presence after the end of a long, shitty day, especially when nothing makes sense. Mom is kind of right, you know, when she says that loneliness finally gets to your head and eventually, you the feel the need of the significant other.

But all of it, when you are ready! Only when the time is right! After all, commitment freaks us all!

7 Things That Make A Guy Irresistible To A Girl

7 Things That Make A Guy Irresistible To A Girl

Dear boys,

We know that you try really hard to convince us and may be harder to have a better hold on us but often than not things don’t work in your favor, and you end up turning off the lady’s interest. And the worse part is, there are secrets girls keep forever and never disclose. You’ll never know the reason of her fading interest.

So, here I have come to your rescue. I have gathered a list of 7 things that make a guy simply irresistible to a girl. If you follow the below-mentioned things that girls find irresistible in a guy, you are surely going to get back in the game.

1. The Way You Smell

Yes! Yes! Yes! This is the most imperative one to be irresistible to girls, and there is no escaping from it. Although, the cologne advertisements go pretty much beyond the actual effect but the concept is undeniably true. A man who smells good clearly wins half the battle.

giorgio-armani-ultimate-cologne saying girls get attracted to the way men smell

2. Sense of Dress

Of course! You are no more into high school and neither would the ‘high school musical’ series help. If you want to be irresistible to women, you have to dress like a  man. And when I say like a man, I mean dress up decently, smartly and most significantly classy. No more cartoon T-shirts or any stupid code printed ones, especially on a date. An official date has to be formal. As they say, ‘Formal attire to a woman is what lingerie is to a man.

Man looking handsome in business formals

3. Sense of Humor

It does wonders, trust me. If you can make the girl laugh, you have pretty much done your part. Here, I mean, in unembroidered sense, ‘be funny and spontaneous‘. More specifically, it’s not just about those Facebook trolls or any classroom jokes, it has to be in the moment; just be in the moment. A man who can make his woman laugh becomes irresistible to her.

men can express women with their sense of humor

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4. Sense of Chivalry

Well, well, well guys. Want to be irresistible to a woman? Be chivalrous. Yes, we want equality and we are feminists, but chivalry never goes out of fashion. Holding the door for your lady or pulling the chair for her isn’t going off track ever. It is in there since the breaking dawn and will be till eternity.

Man-Being-Chivalrous to impress a woman

5. Level of Confidence

Boys, let us get this straight – if you are confident about yourselves, the girl too will be. I mean, you don’t have to make a fool out of yourself by pretending to know anything and everything but expressing your opinions about things you actually know is enough to impress and be irresistible to a girl.

body language of a man that shows he is confident

6. Level of Intelligence

Most girls, including me, are sapiosexual i.e. they are literally attracted to intelligence. There’s nothing sexier than a man who knows things and can talk sense. If you can hold an intelligent conversation with a girl, you will simply become irresistible to her. First, make your way to her mind and sooner or later to her heart.

girls get attracted to an intelligent man

7. Ignite the Romance

Lastly, of course, the topping; the cherry on the cake – if you want to be irresistible to her, ‘be romantic’. Ask her out on a date, gift her flowers and chocolates, take her for long drives, complement her, in short, use all your jazzy moves but make sure everything is smooth and not overdone, as the saying goes, the excess of anything is bad. For instance, there is nothing worse than a fake compliment, especially to a Scorpion Personality (ya! that’s me :p).

romantic dinner plans with gifts, champagne and flowers

Finally, If you manage to involve everything, as I have mentioned above, in the right proportion, there would not be any disappointment. Also, since every girl is different, there would be differences in the approach as well.

So, keep yourself open to experimentation!! 

The art of “Letting Go”

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Since childhood, we are taught to love and care for each other. We are raised in an environment where we grow attached to our loved ones.  We learn to share happiness as well as pain.  Gradually, we feel proud sharing a relationship of pain with our dear ones.  And so, it becomes difficult to imagine our lives without them.  But is it really a healthy relationship? I mean, if we feel sad because another person is sad, the exchange of energy that we have with them is negative.

Here, the realization of “me” becomes important. Although, people misinterpret the concept of being ‘self oriented’ with being ‘selfish’, there is a significant disparity between the two.  While being selfish is a negative trait, being self oriented is a prudent trait.

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One should learn to be independent for his own pleasure and discomfort. The dependencies should be eliminated. The much intricate it sounds, easier it is to execute but the accomplishment needs practice. There are times in our lives where we are scared of losing people; we are afraid of them going away from us. We have learnt to accept this feeling as ‘attachment/love/habit’. But isn’t it true that the fear is not what will happen to them, the fear is what will happen to me, if anything happens to them. The apprehension is that I have not conquered the art of letting go and so I am not prepared for it.

We all have certain responsibilities towards each other and that we are bound by our heart and mind to fulfill them whether we are ready for it or not. We refuse to take a stand for our own happiness because of the inherent belief in us convinces us that my happiness is dependent on others. And that if I think about myself, I might be acting selfish.

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We need to let go off such apprehensions. We need to comprehend the difference between being self-oriented and being self-obsessed. And maybe then, we actually start caring for people not just out of the societal norms but out of the love that exists amidst.

And maybe then, we actually justify the relation of the word “independence” with ourselves.