We know that you try really hard to convince us and may be harder to have a better hold on us but often than not things don’t work in your favor, and you end up turning off the lady’s interest. And the worse part is, there are secrets girls keep forever and never disclose. You’ll never know the reason of her fading interest.
So, here I have come to your rescue. I have gathered a list of 7 things that make a guy simply irresistible to a girl. If you follow the below-mentioned things that girls find irresistible in a guy, you are surely going to get back in the game.
1. The Way You Smell
Yes! Yes! Yes! This is the most imperative one to be irresistible to girls, and there is no escaping from it. Although, the cologne advertisements go pretty much beyond the actual effect but the concept is undeniably true. A man who smells good clearly wins half the battle.
2. Sense of Dress
Of course! You are no more into high school and neither would the ‘high school musical’ series help. If you want to be irresistible to women, you have to dress like a man. And when I say like a man, I mean dress up decently, smartly and most significantly classy. No more cartoon T-shirts or any stupid code printed ones, especially on a date. An official date has to be formal. As they say, ‘Formal attire to a woman is what lingerie is to a man.‘
3. Sense of Humor
It does wonders, trust me. If you can make the girl laugh, you have pretty much done your part. Here, I mean, in unembroidered sense, ‘be funny and spontaneous‘. More specifically, it’s not just about those Facebook trolls or any classroom jokes, it has to be in the moment; just be in the moment. A man who can make his woman laugh becomes irresistible to her.
4. Sense of Chivalry
Well, well, well guys. Want to be irresistible to a woman? Be chivalrous. Yes, we want equality and we are feminists, but chivalry never goes out of fashion. Holding the door for your lady or pulling the chair for her isn’t going off track ever. It is in there since the breaking dawn and will be till eternity.
5. Level of Confidence
Boys, let us get this straight – if you are confident about yourselves, the girl too will be. I mean, you don’t have to make a fool out of yourself by pretending to know anything and everything but expressing your opinions about things you actually know is enough to impress and be irresistible to a girl.
6. Level of Intelligence
Most girls, including me, are sapiosexual i.e. they are literally attracted to intelligence. There’s nothing sexier than a man who knows things and can talk sense. If you can hold an intelligent conversation with a girl, you will simply become irresistible to her. First, make your way to her mind and sooner or later to her heart.
7. Ignite the Romance
Lastly, of course, the topping; the cherry on the cake – if you want to be irresistible to her, ‘be romantic’. Ask her out on a date, gift her flowers and chocolates, take her for long drives, complement her, in short, use all your jazzy moves but make sure everything is smooth and not overdone, as the saying goes, the excess of anything is bad. For instance, there is nothing worse than a fake compliment, especially to a Scorpion Personality (ya! that’s me :p).
Finally, If you manage to involve everything, as I have mentioned above, in the right proportion, there would not be any disappointment. Also, since every girl is different, there would be differences in the approach as well.
So, keep yourself open to experimentation!!