You may have come across relationships that turn out to be something ideal for you. But, do you know what difficulties and complications two people have to go through to keep the relationship going? How about when the distance becomes the factor to break you apart?
You may believe in the myth that Long Distance Relationship doesn’t work but might have been wrong at some point. So, let me tell you, where you are lacking and why is it not working the way you have imagined.
You don’t make time to talk to each other
It is a myth that when two people are in love they don’t need to exchange words as they can communicate through their hearts. When you are in a long distance relationship, all you are left to exchange is words. When you are not doing it properly, it can simply lead to lack of interest and, hence, breakup.
The trust factor of the relationship is lacking
The key to any relationship is the level of trust and when you are miles apart, you need it the most. You should be able to trust your partner as much as you can to be able to make things better. Long Distance Relationships are no different!
You tend to consider your LDR a burden
You tend to consider your long distance relationship as burden rather than taking it seriously and enjoying the bits of loving someone at a distance. Instead of looking at the power and positivity you are getting out of it, you look at the negative aspects of being physically separate.
New environment usually becomes a major cause
As your environment changes, you usually forget about the person who is on the other side of the globe. If that person means to you something, no matter how many friends you have, you just need that one person to be around you. And if not.. you are just lost in the new world.
You keep listening to experience of the people nearby
The biggest mistake you could ever do is to believe what others are saying or have experienced in their relationship. Listening to them may lead your LDR on the same track of leaving your other half.
Wrapping it up
However, it may seem something unachievable but long distance relationships are not a road of thorns when two people who choose to fight for each other.